I am going to be my bff's jie mei (bridesmaid) on her big day! Excited excited till like I am the one getting marry! Yes! My 1st time being a bridesmaid and I will goggle how to be a helpful bridesmaid!
I know my bff from my degree course and we can really hit on well. From school work till gossipping, we can nonstop chatting. Both us always panic over our midterm test and exam, always apps each other and say our prayer.. "Pls let us pass." We will also apps each other on the very 1st moment once we know our result and will jump up high if anyone of us got good grade. Most important is we always encourage each other to study hard :) Though now we are in different module and no longer in same class. But we still apps each other for chat and continue with our gossipping! Powerful sia!
Still have last trimester to our graduation and both of us already starts to plan for our graduation trip to Australia. Lolx.. I am so lucky to know her as friend and she had helped me a lot in my school work, she is my lucky queen.. Love her so much~ ♥
Okie, back to her wedding topic. She told me that she have a friend who tailor made 3 gown to attend her wedding, she will deliver to her hotel room on that day and will change throughout my bff's wedding lunch reception. What a drama queen! The brides-to-be only prepare one gown for the entire wedding lunch reception yet the drama queen guest have 3 suits of gown. WTF! She is going to create a "role ambiguity"... Who is the bride?
Of course, I dun mean that dun dress up nicely for friend's wedding. It is good if you really spend time to doll up yourself and it show respect to the couple too. But not too overly to change gowns throughout the wedding lunch/dinner is exaggerate! This kind of person more likely an attention seeker, so there's a way to cure her extaggerate attention seeker syndrome. Arrange her seat near to exist entrance, the place that seldom have people walk pass and skip her table for photo taking! Or may also tell her that she have a super important role.. tell her that your hotel room have a priceless jewellery and need a super trustworthy pretty babe to look after. Order her room service and let her have her meal in room! Muahahahaha... *evil evil* Hmm.. Other alternative way is, delete her in your invited guest list! kakakaka...
So, human.. everybody just do their part when attend wedding reception, ok? If your role is:
A guest = dress up presentable and go there to eat and give blessing to the couple, remember to give them ANG BOA too!
A bridesmaid = help out the couple especially the brides, give her your best help when she need it. Take note of her make up or any lip stick stains on her teeth and etc. Actually, I also dunno how to help but common sense lah, if the bride stains her red hot lip stick on her teeth, of cos gotta inform her lah! Unless you wanna see all her wedding reception photos with her big cheese smile and red hot lip stick stains on her two front teeth.
Let the couple be the center of attraction on their big day... let them shin like a diamond!